Resolution, kind of

We kind of have a resolution for the situation that happened today. My dad talked to my sister after dinner and took the wife's side, in everything. He even said that what my sister did was abuse toward his wife. That means that according to him, to stand up for yourself=abuse.
I can't say that I'm surprised that he took her side (he also told my sister that if she wouldn't listen to the wife, then they would have to make other arrangements), but I was hoping that for once he would show that he cared about his daughters. But, I shouldn't have even hoped for that. This means that my sister is going to try to find a different place to live. Hopefully she will be able to find something quickly. The situation she is in isn't going to get better, and I foresee it get worse now that the wife knows my dad won't stand up for his daughters. After all, he doesn't want to be alone, and all she would have to do is threaten to leave him if he did. I don't know if that's what she did, but I wouldn't put it past her. And unfortunately my dad is very different then me because I would say, screw you! I would rather be alone then live with that over my head.
I feel drained now, extremely disappointed, but resigned to the fact that things aren't going to change. And it seems to me that in the future, my dad will be less and less a part of my life. I wonder if he won't come to my graduation now as a result . . .