Saturday, December 31, 2011

Almost the New Year

Our array of goodies for breakfast, yum!
Today was a crazy day.  It was so busy.  But I expected it to be that way since we were having a dinner at my house.  This morning we went to Ulises's dad's house to prepare and cook the meat they got yesterday.  On our way there, I realized that I was missing something I needed for my dessert, so we stopped at Soriana's.  There, we both realized we were starving, but that makes sense since we hadn't eaten anything for dinner the night before and hadn't eaten breakfast, either.
Then we drove to pick up his mom before going to his dad's house.  There was a lot of meat.  I helped peel the garlic, but then mainly sat back and let Ulises and his parents do the rest of the work.  We were there for a couple of hours and then took the meat in their pots back to my house to cook.  The pots have a space in the bottom for putting water, then you put something on top of that (rests in a groove in the pot) to protect the meat from the water.  Basically the steam cooks the meat but it takes several hours.
At my house, I got the rest of the stuff ready.  I cooked a turkey, mashed potatoes, broccoli, stuffing, made my pistachio dessert that I love so very much, salad, and biscuits.  In addition, Ulises's mom made corn tortillas and a salsa.  While the meat was cooking (most of everything else didn't need to be made until the end) I started cleaning, Ulises swept up outside and then decided to wash my car, I swept and cleaned inside.
Outside the shopping center where
the Soriana's is located
By the time all the food was done, we knew no one else was coming.  Ulises's dad was going to come later after he got off work, but it ended up being Ulises, his mom and me at meal time.  After we ate, we went upstairs to watch a movie.  We didn't end up being able to watch anything because Ulises's brother-in-law showed up.  He ate and we talked, and then his dad came, so there was more eating and talking.  It was an exhausting day.  And we have way too much food left over.  Still, I think it was a good way to end the year.
Near where Ulises's dad lives, there are tons of abandoned
houses.  People fled with the violence and the down-turn
of the economy, and those left behind basically gutted
what was there, taking windows and doors, etc.
His mom, Ulises, and his dad getting meat ready
More meat
Boiling the head to get the fur off, yuck!
The meat was packed into this pot with
loral and avocado leaves.  The aluminum
foil helps to keep the steam from escaping.
One of the houses in the neighborhood had an stuffed man
that is called the Old Year.  At the end of the year, this man
is burned to take away all the bad things from the past year.
In my car, ready to go!  The weather was beautiful today,
it felt like spring!
Ulises's mom making tortillas, Ulises washing dishes
Tortillas cooking
Sweeping leaves
Washing my car
While I was cutting the tomatoes for the salad, I noticed
that the knife was super sharp.  I also thought to myself,
this knife is really dangerous, if this tomato moves, I could
cut myself.  A second later, that very thing happened.
As you can see here, it bled through SEVERAL bandaids.
It finally stopped leaking out after the fourth layer was added.
Ulises tending my finger later since it started
bleeding again
Dinner!
Ulises and his mom, don't ask about the funny faces, I don't
know.
Ulises and I
When we went upstairs to watch the movie, Gizmo was a little
put out to see that Ulises's mom had taken what he considers
to be his place on this bean bag chair.  After trying to tell her
to leave, he laid down next to her.
Cake and Pistachio Dessert!
Bro-in-law, Ulises and me, mom and dad

Friday, December 30, 2011

Two Month Anniversary

Today is Ulises's and my two-month anniversary.  Work wasn't too bad, but I was still feeling worn out.  Afterwards, I fell asleep and Ulises came over.  He had the day off so he could go get the meat we're having for a New Years Eve dinner tomorrow.
Meeting with the missionaries
Anyway, he brought a couple of gifts for me for our anniversary.  He got me a painting and a statue.  They are both of Aztec figures.  It was really nice.  We were going to go out and do something, but a lot of things factored into that not happening.  First of all, the missionaries came over, so that cut out some of the time we otherwise would have had.  Second, Ulises still had his dad's truck, so we needed to take that back to him.  Then he was kind of worried about his brother-in-law, so he wanted to talk to him.  But while we were waiting for the bro-in-law to be available, we were driving along.  There was a park (DIF) that Ulises had wanted to take me to, but when we arrived, they had already closed.  We learned that they would be open again on Monday, so we decided to go back this coming Monday.  After that, we went to see his bro-in-law.  Despite not really doing much, it was a good anniversary.  Tomorrow we're having Ulises's family over to my house for dinner.  Although I don't like cooking a lot, I do like having large dinners.  I'm not really sure what that is about.  But I am looking forward to tomorrow.

Presents for our anniversary

Gizmo thinks he is a present, too
Flowers Ulises brought me yesterday

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Fried plantains

Tonight Ulises made fried plantains for me.  I have to admit that they were really good.  Basically, he got the really green plantains, sliced them into thin slices, fried them, and then salted them.  It was like a potato chip.
And I have to say, I really like that he cooks for me :)
Frying plantains
Plantains frying
Ready to fry
Me waiting for fried plantains

Monday, December 26, 2011

Second Christmas

Gizmo loves his new toy!  There is a mouse that peeps
out of a hole in a log, the tail swishes around at the base
and if you push the mouse, it makes squeaks!
I'm back in Juarez! It has been a long day, but I have so much energy! That may be because instead of sleeping on my flight from Phoenix, I talked the entire way. But I'm getting ahead of myself.
This morning was filled with after-Christmas shopping. We were looking for sales on Christmas items. I wasn't planning on buying anything, but I ended up buying lots of Christmas cards. I guess I won't have an excuse not to send Christmas cards next year.
Sunflower seed owl
After shopping, Patti and I went back the the house. We watched one of my Christmas presents, and generally relaxed until Frank got home. Then we ate dinner before they took me to the airport. I didn't know how much time I would need. It turned out I didn't need as much as I had. But oh well, I guess that's better than arriving and realizing that if I don't cut in front of everyone and don't literally run to the plane, I will miss my flight.
On the flight back, I was sitting next to a guy who just returned from being deployed in Kosovo a couple weeks ago. We had an interesting conversation about life overseas. Maybe that is really what gave me energy. I love talking about living abroad and my experiences in different countries.
When I arrived home, Ulises was waiting for, as was Gizmo. I guess they both missed me tremendously. I gave Gizmo his Christmas present. He loved it, just as I knew he would, though it took him a little while to realize what was going on.
New clothes!
Then Ulises wanted me to open his present to me. I did so. He even got me a little something for my stocking. Then I had him open my present to him. He was surprised to discover that it had been sitting under my Christmas tree that whole time. After that, since I still had energy, I opened the other Christmas presents I had left under my tree.
All in all, this year was a really good Christmas. The only thing that could have made it better would have been having all my family and friends at my house for Christmas. Then again, maybe that would only be nice in my dreams. Who KNOWS what would happen if all of my family and all my friends gathered in one place!
Stocking stuffers
Ulises opening my gift to him

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Merry Christmas!

Frank with the Christmas stockings
Merry Christmas!
This morning began very early, of course.  You can't really expect anything else when Frank is around.  I was woken up early, around 5:30 by a loud horn.  By the third time he blew that horn, I said, "I heard you the first time!"  It brought back memories to my Christmas with them when I lived with them in Las Vegas 11 yrs ago.  Wow, I can't believe that was 11 yrs ago!
We started with our stockings and then opened gifts.  When we were done, we got ready for church.  Their church was actually meeting with 2 other wards, one of them the Spanish ward.  So, despite the fact that I wasn't in Mexico, part of my meeting was in Spanish (just a few words, they had a translator for most of it) and I sang some of the hymns in Spanish as well.
Patti opening her stocking
After church, the missionaries came over for Christmas dinner.  It was a really good meal: ham, applesauce, stuffing, deviled eggs, salad, rolls.  It was good.  After dinner, we played a game called Farkle.  We HAD to play the game because they had given me my own travel version for Christmas and I needed to learn how to play.  It is a dice rolling game.  It was a lot of fun.  I miserably lost the first round, but I won the second round.
It was a good day.  I'm glad I came for Christmas.  I'm also really excited to go home tomorrow.  Its amazing how much I miss Juarez when I'm not there...
My stocking stuffers and gift from Santa
Opening a present
Frank excited for his new hand-held GPS
Frank and Patti opening my gift to them
Aztec calendar blanket
Sadie excited for her present
Family picture
Preparing Christmas dinner
While we were waiting for the food to be ready,
the missionaries and I worked on this 3000 piece
puzzle my aunt had been working on.
Christmas salad, somehow pomegranate make it look
so festive!
After dinner, playing Farkle