Wednesday, October 11, 2006

PICTURES ESHYO!

Relief Society in our branch in Engels
My district – Elder Page, Elder Ray, me, Sister Silva, at the piano Elder Wade, in front Elder Cummings
Sisters! Sister Kuligowski, Sister Hill (those two are now serving together in Samara), Sister Wheeler, my new companion Sister Delgertsetseg, and me – in the office in Samara.

PICTURES

Me at Red Square in Moscow
Me at the Baltic Sea in Tallin, Estonia

My new daughter

Dear family,
Well, here I am, back in Энгельс (Engels) (well literally in Саратов (Saratov), but I’m living in Энгельс). Things are so different now. I have my new companion, Sister Дэлгэрцэцэг (Delgertsetseg - that means Blooming Flower in Mongolian). She is from Уланбатар (Ylanbator), the capital of Mongolia and is really cute. She knows a little English and a little Russian, but it is still hard to communicate sometimes, but she is great and working really hard to learn the language. It is quite a chore to be a trainer. I knew it would be hard but it makes it even harder that I don’t always know if she understands me when I am explaining things, but then she eventually seems to understand because she does most of the things I’ve told her we do. She is even really willing to speak to people on the street when I tell her it is her turn. The only problem is that she is so shy that she just says, “Hello. Please.” And then hands them a card. That’s ok because I don’t mind talking to people. Its just good to get her to talk. She is also opening up to me and talking more. She’s so quiet and shy that she often grabs my arm when we are walking. I don’t mind that either, it makes me feel like a mother (that’s what we usually call our trainer when we are sisters, I’m her mother and she is my daughter).
(Picture above was taken in Самара (Samara) in the Mission Office the day after my new companion arrived. Sisters Kuligowski, Hill, Wheeler, Дэлгэрцэцэг, and me)
Other than that, work is hard like usual. I really do love Энгельс, though. I’m starting to wonder how much time I have left here because 4 new sisters come next cycle and that means that a new city will be opening for sisters. I would like to stay here until the end, but at the same time I would like to open a new city again (don’t ask me why I would want that when it was so hard the last time I did it). The other day I was feeling a little discouraged, rather alone because it is hard to communicate with my companion, but now I’m feeling better. Our zone leaders sent a text message asking how she’s feeling and then how I’m feeling and for some reason that made me feel a lot better.
So, let’s see, the interesting things that happened this week. Well, Wednesday night we went to institute for Sister Wheeler (she’s serving in Саратов with a mini-missionary right now, she went to Самара with us to drop off her last companion) to see all the girls from the branch in Самара. Sister Wheeler served there for 4 months. Sister Silva and Sister Блохина (Bloxina) came to say good-bye to everyone, too. They both were going home the next day. I felt a little left out because I was the only one who didn’t serve in Самара, so I went upstairs to see the Lunts (a CES couple serving in Самара). When I went back downstairs, it was almost time to go. I felt so alone and sad because I had no idea what things were going to be like and I felt a huge weight on my shoulders because right now I have to decide everything, who we will see and when and what we will talk about (Дэгги (Deggi) – the short form of her name – helps but she doesn’t know the people and I can’t even really explain their situations for her to help). So, I guess you could say that I felt the weight of our investigators’ and members’ salvation on my shoulders. Anyway, I’m not exactly sure why, but the tears started flowing. I couldn’t stop them and then I was embarrassed because everyone tried to help me but it just didn’t help. Then, everyone wanted a picture together and I looked horrible. It was awful, really it was. I can’t even explain it. I couldn’t keep myself from crying but I wasn’t even sure why I was crying. Sister Silva and Sister Блохина both thought it was because they were going home, but I can’t even say that that was the reason (though maybe it made them feel good, so that’s not bad, and maybe that was part of it). I think maybe it just hit me more than ever how little time I have left on the mission. After all, I am the next one of the sisters to go home.
Anyway, I’m feeling a lot better now and I have a lot to do which helps keep my mind off the ticking clock. The only bad thing is that there is one investigator who doesn’t even want to meet with us now that Sister Silva left. Well, that means that she was only meeting with us to see Sister Silva, so I guess that means she is not ready. That’s pretty much it, though, everyone else is still really happy when we come so I’m glad about that.
What else? We ate dinner at President’s apartment on Thursday night because my new companion flew in and he didn’t want her to be alone. Then we slept in the guest apartment next to theirs. That is the nicest apartment I have ever been in, much less slept in. It was really comfortable, too. I liked it. The next morning, we ate breakfast with Sister Давудик (Davydik). It was good; she made omelettes. Then we had a little time to study before going down to the office for Дэгги’s orientation. I sat in the office and talked with the Elders who work there, and I wrote in one of their journals (pretty much every missionary has a journal that they give to other missionaries or members to write in). Then we ate lunch with President. It was really good. The chicken was so tender that I thought it might be fish! We also had плов (plov) (I’ll have to make that for you all when I get home because it is really good) and a salad. For dessert, pistachio ice cream! Wow, I ate well that day.
After lunch we had some time, so we studied some more and then went to English so we wouldn’t be bored. Our train left for Саратов that night at 10:00. We had an interesting experience there. Our neighbors wanted to get to know us. It was a little weird and Sister Wheeler didn’t feel comfortable. I felt ok about it because they knew we were missionaries and we talked about the church, invited them to English and all that. But still, it was the first time that I’ve ever had anyone try to talk to me on a train. We arrived Saturday morning and took a taxi to our apartment in Энгельс. Дэгги took some time to unpack before we began our usual routine of contacting, and so on.
(Picture to the right was taken at the больница (bolnitsa) or hospital in Энгельс. Elder Burnah, me, Sister Дэлгэрцэцэг, and Elder Cummings. We did a lot of service at this hospital, cleaning, sewing, and pasting windows shut).
Wow, I can hardly believe that it hasn’t even been one week since we started serving together. I feel like it has been much longer. I can hardly remember what it was like before. But, everyone keeps reminding me how little time I have left. I don’t know why they do that. Don’t they know that it is better to forget so you can get to work? When I served with Sister Блохина, I had to tell her all the time that she had a lot of time left. We made this deal that she was not going home soon. Everything before that was soon, but even one day before she left for home was not soon. When I talked to her she said that going home snuck up on her because of that, but that she was able to work hard until the end.
Anyway, that is my goal. I have to teach my greenie how to work hard so I think that will help me to focus on it. I want her to have the best experience on her mission that she can, no regrets. By the way, she is teaching me a little Mongolian. Maybe I’ll be able to have a conversation when I come home! (Maybe not, but at least I can say “hi” and “this is a dog” – that last one is important so don’t laugh!)
Ok, thanks to everyone that wrote this week. I got a little carried away with everything. I hope this isn’t boring for you. By the way, thanks Elizabeth, I really enjoyed your letter this week. That is what I call a real letter. Keep it up and let me know how the job and application to BSC turn out. Mom, thanks for your letters; I always enjoy reading yours. I’m glad that everything worked out with the papers even though Sara didn’t get to go to seminary. By the way, is she still alive? I haven’t heard anything from her in a while. Dad, that’s too bad about the computer but good that you were able to get a new one that will be ok for a backup. Grandma and Grandpa, so you know, Энгельс is in the Moscow time zone, Самара is one hour ahead (so when it is 1:00 here in Энгельс it is 2:00 in Самара). Good luck with your talk on Sunday, I’m sure you’ll do great. We will be seeing conference this week.
Oh, I almost forgot to tell you! We get to see the dedication service for the temple in Finland! I’m so excited about that! It will be Oct. 22 and we get to watch it in Russian and then again in English. I am so excited. I wish I could go there, but seeing the dedication is definitely better than nothing.
Well, I guess that is enough for now. I think I’ve written a lot more than usual and my time is probably up.

Love,
Сестра Атвуд

P.S. I'm going to try to send some pictures, too. I hope you get them

Wednesday, October 4, 2006

Dear family,
I am now in Самара (Samara). It has been a long night. In fact, I am so tired that I really don't want to write, that takes too much energy . . .
But, I'll write anyway. Thanks to everyone who wrote this week. Lizzy, great job! I think that is the most you have ever written me. Sara, you really need to do better. The first one was ok, barely acceptable, but the second was a disgrace. By the way, Happy Birthday! I hope it went well for you!
Anyway, mom, thanks for asking Becky about the тапочки (tapochki), but you didn't mention if you would like a pair or not. Let me know about that, also Lizzy didn't mention whether she would wear them if I bought them. Just to let you know, I can probably get you a pink pair if you want, then would you wear them? So, yeah, if you got my flight schedule, could you send me the information so I know what is going on? (When I am leaving, where I fly first, etc and also if there is any other information, I would really appreciate that). That's cool about the MTC choir. I have always wanted to be in a choir for general conference but I haven't had that chance yet. We should get to see conference in a few weeks. It should be good. We'll get to see woman's conference on the 14th. I'm looking forward to that because I heard President Hinckley spoke. That's all well and good, but probably the coolest thing is that the temple in Finland is going to be dedicated soon. We get to watch it! I'm really excited to be able to see that. Having a temple in Finland cuts the time and cost way down. It is great for the members. There will be an English broadcast and we get to see that. (picture above is from our last district meeting with Sister Silva. We decided to have lunch to commemorate the occasion. Elders Ray, Cummings, Wade; Sister Silva, and Elder Page. We had really good chicken, salad, and chocolate revel bars made by yours truly and Sister Silva).
Lizzy, that will be really great to teach institute. Too bad I won't be there to see it. Also, I'm glad you organized those areas. Keep up the good work, I'm now expecting everything to be organized when I get home . . .
Dad, that's too bad about the computer but I know you'll get it figured out. Do you have the stamps from the letter that I sent when I was serving in Тольятти (Togliatti)? I can try to buy a few stamps, but I don't know how that works here, they usually put them directly on envelopes, but I'll ask if I can just buy some.
Sara, sword fighting sounds interesting. I wish we had done things like that, but that's ok, I still had some really interesting English classes.
So, what else can I share? My companion is probably right now having lunch with President and his wife, that is if she and Sister Блохина (Bloxina) finished their final interviews. They leave tomorrow morning. That is so crazy to think. Until my new companion gets here, I will have no companions in the mission field. Life is certainly going to be interesting these next several weeks. I have a horrible sinking feeling that the time is going to go by so quickly that next thing I know, I will be having lunch with President and preparing to leave. As for the time it takes, I get home the 21st because of the nearly 12 hour time difference from here and there.
Let's see, not much has really happened since last week because we've been spending this whole time saying good-byes, packing (well, I haven't been doing that, but I've had to go along. I've mainly been cleaning our apartment so I won't have to be embarrassed when the new sister gets here).
(Picture to the right is in front of the ox monument in Энгельс. If you look, it has the name of the town on the statue. This is the symbol of the city. It has salt on its back because they used to transport salt through Энгельс. Very small is me and Sister Silva).
Here's a funny story. One of the members in our branch is a taxi driver. The Elders often hire him to take them when they need a taxi. We decided to call him even though he is infamous for his bad driving. When we asked the Elders for his number they asked, do you want to survive? We were like, it would be nice to survive, but we called him anyway. He agreed. Literally an hour later, we got a phone call from the Elders telling us that the member had gotten into an accident, so he couldn't take us. We had to find a different taxi. It was pretty crazy, and pretty funny, but I'm glad that he didn't get into an accident while WE were in the car.
We traveled up to Самара with the two sisters who are serving in Саратов (Saratov). That was great because we talked and had fun the whole time. That is why I am really tired, plus the fact that we got to Самара really early this morning and there is an hour time difference between Самара and Энгельс (Engels). So, we left at 5:30 yesterday afternoon and arrived at 5:45 this morning. It was a long ride, but better than the gazelle ride they tried to put us on (you know, those vans they use here). None of us were happy about that. I prayed really hard and the other sister talked with people who made decisions about our transportation, and at the last minute, they bought us train tickets. So, lucky us!
Well, family, I really am tired and I'm not exactly sure what else to say. I love you all and I am looking forward to hearing from you next week, especially about my flight plans and from mom and Lizzy about the тапочки (tapochki).

Love,
Сестра Атвуд

Friday, September 29, 2006

День Иминниников

Happy Birthday! That was the theme for our monthly branch activity in Энгельс (Engels). The last Friday of every month was dedicated to those who had a birthday in that month. (Left - this scenario (read more below to understand what I'm talking about here) was a man takes a woman to a movie but he falls asleep during the movie. Usually it is better to have only one person involved in the scenario. It makes it easier to carry on acting. In this case Ольга (Olga) and Павел (Pavel) were the original ones to act it out. The other team didn't usually have a second person with them) It was a night filled with music, chocolate, and games. Usually the night began with a spiritual thought. Ольга (Olga), who was kind of in charge of branch activities, would lead the activity and we would begin with a song and a prayer. Then, a spiritual thought, probably about 5-7 minutes, would be given.
Next she would lead a поздравление (pozdravleniye - like congratulations) of the birthday holders. (Right - this was one of the later showings. Игор (Igor) was on one team, but Ольга was on the other. He picked her up in the middle of it and that is the only reason there are two in this instance) Then, she would sing, along with several of the members, a song that she had written for the birthday men and women. Next, they would pass out a chocolate bar for each person who had had a birthday.
After all that was accomplished, we would begin having games. This particular time, the missionaries were in charge of the games. First, we played a fun game called Крокодил (Krokodil or Crocodile). Don't ask me why it is called that. Basically the game is played with two groups. One group leaves the room. The other group remains and discusses what they would like to act out. It can be a scenario, a word, or phrase. Then, the group chooses one person who will act it out for the other team.
(Above - Elder Page acted out the next scenario. This was getting on a Russian bus) This game ends up being kind of like telephone, but you see it instead of hearing it.
The next team comes in, one person at a time. The person chosen by the other team acts out the scenario for the first person to come into the room. That person must then act it out for the next teammate to come in who in turn acts it out for the next and so on until the last person has entered the room. The last person doesn't have to act it out but must guess what the other team had acted out. If he or she chooses correctly, their team gets a point. If not, the other team gets a point. Then, no matter what, the original person to act out the scenario, acts it out for all to see how it began.
(Left - Аня was one of the first ones to act out this scenario. It got to be really funny) It is a really fun game. We didn't play for points or prizes, but you could have best out of three if you want to have prizes. But, be warned, it does take a while. We usually just played for fun and because it is funny. The more people, the longer it takes, but the weirder the scenario becomes.
(The following film was the original of the bus scenario, recorded by Elder Ray. It was really confusing by the time you get to the end. The trick with these scenarios is to not have any actions that are easy to pick out that are telltale. For example, licking an ice cream cone and having it fall on the ground, but picking it up and continuing on. That is very easy to remember, even though it is funny to watch. It doesn't change much. You need to have movements that can be interpreted in different ways)
The next game we played doesn't have a name that I know of. It is really fun, and tasty, too. This can be played with a smaller number of people and still be fun. In fact, if you get too many people, you will need to break up into smaller groups. You sit in a circle. (Left - here I am explaining how to play the game. Below - Сергей (Sergei), he used to be the branch president) You can sit around a table if you want, that makes it a little easier, but if there are too many people to fit around a table, that's ok, too. In this case, we just set chairs in a circle.
If you are going to play this game, it takes a little advance preparation. You need to have at least one chocolate bar (one of the larger sizes) for each group. Then, you need to gather some strange clothing. Preferably hats, gloves, maybe scarves. It can really be anything, but it works the best if you have 3-4 different items, with a pair of gloves or mittens being one of them. We used a hat, sunglasses, and mittens for one group, a hat, scarf, and gloves for the other. I would have thrown a scarf into the first group as well, but we wanted to keep the number of items even for each group.
Once you have all that ready, you are almost ready to play.

(left - Аня, eating a piece of chocolate. She might kill me if she knew I put this picture up here, but I think it is rather flattering! Plus, I put one of me up here, so I think it is fair. Below - Here some of the kids are getting into the game)You just need to have a single die, a plate, and a spoon for each person (not a fork - we used a fork, but it works better if you use a spoon because you can't stab the chocolate, you have to scoop it up without touching it, we just didn't have enough spoons for everyone) handy for each group as well.
The object of the game is to eat as much chocolate as you can (ok, maybe that is a weird object, but if the chocolate is good, that's a great prize). You can have a prize if there is one person who obviously was able to eat chocolate more than anyone else. (Left - Светлана (Svetlana) the branch president's wife. This was the other circle, so the clothing is a little different) Anyway, you then begin rolling the die. You can pick any number, but we chose 6. If you roll a six, you must first clothe yourself in the provided items and then begin to eat the chocolate. You can only use the spoon to eat the chocolate, first opening it (so don't open the chocolate before you begin the game).
Each person passes the die to the person on their right when they have had their turn. The key is to pass the die and roll as quickly as possible to keep the others from eating all of the chocolate. (Right - Ольга eating her chocolate. See, the nice thing about mittens is that it makes it a little more difficult to grasp the spoon) As soon as another person rolls the chosen number, the current chocolate eater must stop eating the chocolate, take of the provided articles of clothing, and give them to the person who rolled the correct number. It is very fun (maybe more so than it sounds) and can get entertaining when one person cannot even finish clothing before the next person rolls the chosen number. The game is over when the chocolate has been completely eaten.
The nice thing about this game is that it is good for adults and children a like. Of course, we would often go slower when a child was eating the chocolate, so at least he or she could get one piece in their mouth.
We ended the night with another song and prayer.